Monday, January 16, 2006

Do you appreciate?

After I came back to york, I read a X'mas card from my friend. She has long been trying her best to become a trainee of clinical psychology. In the letter, she wrote that she wants to study hard, appriciating a patient support around her. This simple message struck me, because I thought I have been quite unaware of supports I am receiving, directly and indirectly. There are those who really think about me and try to support you. Do you really appreciate that they are there to help me? Do you thank them? How can you show your appreciation? I want to thank my friend that she let me start thinking about these things.

I have heard a few days ago that she (who wrote me a letter) has passed the exam and is going to be a trainee from April. Congratulation for her!!! I would like to follow her example and turn my appreciation into action, and then to a result.


前は視野が狭くなり自分のことしか見えなくて甘えていたけれど、
してもらったこと、今日生かされて過ごしているという幸せを見失わずに
感謝してPositiveに日々努力をしていこうと少しずつ進んでいます。

友人のカードにこうありました。
これは、「僕は僕は」、「私は私は」と思っていたら絶対に出て来ない、
まっすぐで、とても素敵なコトバだと思います。

人に感謝するということ。
それを地道な行動に、そして結果に変えていくということ。
その素晴らしい例をみせてくれた彼女に感謝です。
見習うところ、たくさんあります。

6 Comments:

At Tuesday, 17 January, 2006, Anonymous Anonymous said...

There are no things accomplished by our own power. we are always being supported by someone. But it sometimes tends to forget that we thank for people who help us. The person like your friend who has us recall it at such time is an important person.
Thank you for telling us your wonderful message that you got.

 
At Tuesday, 17 January, 2006, Blogger Koji said...

I'm glad you also like it !!
I thought there's something to learn from what she said. And I found it very encouraging, especially because I am now facing a demanding academic task.

 
At Sunday, 22 January, 2006, Anonymous Anonymous said...

おひさしぶりです!前ヨークにいたエリナです。覚えてないかもしれないですけど・・・!

このあいだアヤカからメールがきました。ていうか、去年あやかに会った時にコウジさんのブログにリンクしてるよってきいてたんですが・・ちょっと勇気を出して書きこみました笑

 
At Sunday, 22 January, 2006, Blogger Wanchen said...

I agree with you, we should always be grateful.
I remember there is a motto on the frontpage of Google Scholar search engine, "stand on the shoulders of giants". I think the most supportive shoulders that lift us high and allow us to look far are those of our families and friends.

Is that the legendary Tomomi? : )

 
At Sunday, 22 January, 2006, Blogger Koji said...

おお!エリナ!もちろん覚えてますよ。アヤカから話は聞いていたけど、元気にしてるかい??
またブログ遊びにきて書きこんでくださいな。

 
At Sunday, 22 January, 2006, Blogger Koji said...

Yes, Wanchien. I think she has finally broken the period of silence and emerged out of it!!

 

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